The Kite Runner: An Essay Analyzing Hosseinis Illustration Of Bad Parenting As A Universal Problem Of Society

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Khaled Hosseini, in his first novel, The Kite Runner, illustrates the importance of great attention, care and love for the success of proper parenting. Through a plot wrapped around consecutive images of bad parenting, the importance of proper parenting emerges and is emphasized. Baba neglecting Amir's emotional needs, Hassan's desertion of Sohrab when he is killed, and the promise Amir breaks for Sohrab are all examples of faulty parenting apparent in The Kite Runner. Religions and professors are provide prevalent guides for successful parenting while voices of songs and literature reflect disappointments in family interactions and outcomesThe captivating plot of the story is, in fact, held together by Baba's neglect of Amir, and Amir's need for parental love. Amir, the main character, spent his entire childhood determined to earn his father's affection, to the point where it caused him to betray his closest friend. This betrayal and the persistent questioning of his father's love and lack of parenting overshadow Amir's life. To illustrate his love for his father, Amir explains, "I worshipped Baba with an intensity that was almost religious" (32). Additionally, the child's love and cherish for his father is apparent when he explains, "…it wasn't often Baba talked to me, let alone let me sit on his lap- and I'd been a fool to waste it" (17). This shows the level of respect and appreciation Amir has for his Father. Baba is not always home, however, because he is busy with his job and with helping members of the community. Amir desperately wanted time with his father. He expresses this feeling when after winning the kite fighting contest, he muses "I remember I was fairly happy when Baba was home. We'd eat together, go to see a film, visit Kaka Homayoun or Kaka Faruq. Sometimes Rahim Khan came over and Baba let me sit in his study and sip tea with them" (87). Baba's lack of concern for his son's needs creates a hole which Amir was finds himself able to fill with his kite. At the expense of his half-brother Hassan, Amir holds on to this kite. In a time of need for Hassan, Amir chooses to retrieve his kite, rather than to help his brother because of the emotional value of the toy. Baba's poor parenting provides the basis of the whole novel as it leaves such emotional scarring in Amir's life. It is the pretext that develops the novel as Amir embarks on a search to correct his prior mistake.Parenting is a full time responsibility, and physical presence of a parent is only a small part of all that a child needs. One can observe an abundance of unsatisfied responsibilities similar to those of Amir's father in current music. Everclear's "Father of Mine" outlines the importance of "always being a parent." The speaker address his father, and explains, asks him "Tell me where have you been; you know I just closed my eyes; my whole world disappeared" (Everclear 2-4). Additionally, he explains, "I loved it when you held me high; I loved to hear you...

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