Monogamy And The American Culture Essay

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Currently, by definition and tradition, we are living in an American society that sees itself as predominantly monogamous. However, this monogamous society has increasingly been filled with cheating, unfaithful, and overall promiscuous individual. As of today, 57% of American males and 54% of American females, admit to committing infidelity in any relationship they’ve (Glass) So what exactly happen to the ideology of monogamy in America? What has happen to the system of having only one partner at any specific time? Is monogamy really dying, or is it already six feet under in today’s society? Some may argue that America was never truly a monogamous society and thus monogamy isn’t dying but merely less represented. On the other hand, people argue that one can do as they please and if being in a non-monogamous relationship makes them happy, to each their own. My own view is that monogamy is facing a dying role in American culture. Non-monogamous practices have grown to become a visible part of today’s American society. This paper will look at why monogamy is important, the reason it’s dying and why it needs to be placed back in the spotlight.
Beside the social stigmatism to polygamy, monogamy has many benefits for the human race. Although some may argue, as humans, we aren’t exactly designed to be a perfectly monogamist species, it my personal opinion that we have the adept skills to make monogamy work and be a valuable way of life. Of the about 4,000 mammal species on Earth, only a few dozen form lifelong monogamous pair bonds (Jeffries). That equates to approximately 3% of all mammals participating in monogamous activities. Professor Roger Rubin reports in his paper “Alternative Family Lifestyles Revisited …Communes”?, family relationships that only 43 of 238 societies across the world are monogamous(Jeffries). Clearly, based on the fact above, monogamy is hardly the norm for humans. So why follow such a seemingly unnatural or unorthodox method?
Simple put it, monogamy helps human to raise children. As described in “Monogamy has a reason - and it's not very romantic” a study published in the Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences, scientists argue that the main reason humans - more precisely, male humans- became monogamous was to keep their babies from being killed by other men (Monogamy has a reason). Equally important, a parental duo is the best case scenario for the safe development of human babies. Basically, as our brains got bigger and the amount of learning that had to be instructed to our children grew greater, thus increasing the portion of the lives children were dependent of their parents(Monogamy has a reason). Clearly according to the scientific evidence, monogamy has an important role in the American society. Nobody wants to see the death of innocent, defenseless babies and raising our children is one of the many priorities of life. So why shift away from a system that human evolutionary history develops to...

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