The Effects of Gay Marriage on Families
"Marriage is really important and what we build families on, which is why gay marriage is really
important"Margaret Cho. Gay marriage is one of the most controversial topics out there. Everyone has
their own opinion on it, whether it's good or bad. The legalization of gay marriage has various positive
effects on families such as divorce rates, children, and the economy.
Gay Marriage is a pretty straightforward concept, however many people are unaware of the
long journey those affected by it have gone through and just how controversial it really is. "The
movement to obtain marriage rights and benefits for samesex couples in the United States began in the
early 1970's," (HaiderMarkel 1). 34 years ago marks the beginning of a long and emotional journey to
try and make gay marriage accepted in our society. It has been a very emotional ride for those involved
and affected by the laws relating to gay marriage, but things are just getting better and progress towards
equality is being made. "In 1996, the U.S. Congress passed the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA).
DOMA excluded samesex marriage from federal government recognition. It defined marriage as 'a
legal union between one mad and one woman as husband and wife'," (HaiderMarkel 1). DOMA
basically took away all of gay couples' rights and made it look like gay marriage was terrible and
wrong. This was a terrible blow to gays and their families. However, time was all that the world really
needed to reevaluate its thoughts and beliefs on gay marriage and slowly, things started to change.
Over the years, different states and countries one by one have begun to legalize gay marriage.
According to the table, same sex marriage is legal in the Netherlands, Belgium, Canada, Portugal,
Denmark, Brazil, France, New Zealand, and Uruguay, (HaiderMarkel 5). A total of 15 countries out
of approximately 195 countries on earth allow gay marriage. 7% of the countries in the whole world
with gay marriage legalized isn't much at all, but it seems to be getting somewhere. According to the
table, samesex marriage is legal in Massachusetts, Connecticut, Iowa, New Hampshire, Vermont,
New York, Maine, Maryland, Washington, California, Delaware, Hawaii, Minnesota, New Jersey,
New Mexico, and Rhode Island, (HaiderMarkel 5). A little bit less than a third of the states in America
allow gay marriage. America still has a long way to go, but slowly and surely the country is becoming
more and more accepting of gay marriage. The current United States president seems to have
contributed to this positive change.
President Obama is progay marriage and reflects his beliefs in the things he does for our
country. "July 2011: President Obama calls for the repeal of the 1996 Defense of Marriage Act which
defines marriage as between a man and a woman and withholds federal benefits from gay couples,"
(SameSex Marriage Timeline 1). Three years ago, Obama...