In The Secret Life of Bees, author Sue Monk Kidd, portrays the transformation of Lily Owens from a child burdened with the guilt of her mother's death to a strong and confident young woman, as a result of living with May, Rosaleen, and August. Lily, burdened with the guilt of her mother's death becomes terrified of her father, T. Ray. August and May guide Lily’s growth to a life of faith and devotion while Rosaleen remains as Lily’s constant companion. As Lily finds her true identity she transforms into a strong and confident young woman which helps her face the world and all of its challenges.
Lily, feeling burdened with the guilt of her mother's death becomes terrified of her father, T. Ray. Lily, feeling burdened with the guilt from the circumstances of her mother’s death when she is told that she killed her mother. T. Ray scares Lily when he says “We turned around and you were standing holding the gun. You picked it up off the floor. Then it just went ...view middle of the document...
August and May guide Lily’s transformation of faith and forgiveness, while Rosaleen’s role in Lily’s life changes. August helps Lily grow in her faith in many ways.one time August teaches Lily that “Our Lady is not some magical being out there somewhere, like a fairy godmother. She’s hot the statue in the parlor. She’s something inside of you” (288). Lily learns how to accept Our Lady of Chains as her mother and grow in faith by living with August. May teaches lily how to live with the pain in her life. Lily begins to accept herself when she uses the wailing wall “I tore a piece of paper from a tablet and wrote my mother’s name on it … I pressed the paper with her name into a cranny that seemed right for her, giving her to the wailing wall”(100 and 101). After watching May deal with her pain Lily tries to deal with hers in a similar way. Lily’s view of Rosaleen as a mother and a friend change to help Lily grow. She remembers Rosaleen’s love for her, “She loved me beyond reason” (11). Lily learns how much Rosaleen loves her when Rosaleen buys her a present when Lily is a child. Lily’s friends teach her how to love and forgive these gifts help her transform into a new person.
As Lily finds her true identity; she transforms into a strong and confident young woman. Lily finds her identity by growing in her faith and finding her true mother. Lily accepts Mary as her mother when she says, “I reached out and traced black Mary’s heart with my finger … you are the mother of thousands” (164). Lily accepting Our Lady of Chains as her mother is the biggest step she takes to change into a new person. Lily becomes a strong and confident woman when she stands up for Zach at an all-white high school. Lily remains as Zach’s constant friend even when she is teased for it, “Becca and I wait for him in the lunch room and sit with him every chance we get. We have a reputation as nigger lovers” (301). Lily stands up for Zach no matter what. This makes her able to show her true identity as a strong and confident woman.
Rosaleen, August and May help Lily transform from a child burdened with guilt to a strong and confident young woman by teaching her how to love and forgive herself and others. With these new gifts Lily finds her true identity inside of her, to help change her view of the world.