Bullying is a serious problem in homes, schools, and communities. Bullying can have a negative effect on academic, physical, social, and emotional development of anyone involved. It can affect the bully, the bullied, and the bystander. It seems that no matter what type of research is done or how many “anti-bullying” programs are created, the problem still exists. People don’t know how big the bullying issue is. They tend to blow it off or they will underestimate it. Bullying is a large social problem and to solve it takes courage, determination, and leadership to address.
Can bullying be corrected before it gets ugly? John Cloud told of the story of Seth Walsh, a student who killed himself because of bullying. Seth was gay and he was considered "weird" by others starting in the fourth grade. Tyler Clementi, a freshman at Rutgers University, committed suicide as well, jumping off of the George Washington Bridge in New York City. These guys could not handle life anymore. They were constantly teased, harassed, and bullied every day, until they decided that enough was enough. Where are the resources? Why aren't any red flags being thrown out? We, as citizens of the U.S., should be more open and controlling to bullying. Tougher laws should be made, especially for those who cause a death, related to suicide. I feel that we should also learn to accept one another. Bullying is too common now and no one should have to worry about their loved one doing something crazy, because of how they are treated.
We have seen various results of crimes where the offender has been bullied in the past. They commit crimes for revenge or to feel better. It is a shame that they have to go to this route because someone is bullying them. They don’t have the courage to speak up for themselves and endure the bullying, until they decide to go on a rampage or kill themselves. It shouldn’t have to get to that point when people want to be active and hear their pleas for help. Bullying just does not happen in schools, but in the workforce as well. Employees tend to be harassed as well, just as bullying in the school. Although the age difference has changed, bullying is bullying period. No one should have to endure that type of behavior at a job or workplace. The workplace should be somewhere people come to make a living but cannot do their job effectively because someone is picking on them.
Just because the circumstances are different, does not mean the results can be the same. There have been incidents in which people have gone to their jobs and shot other because of bullying. They feel if someone can bully them, then they have whatever coming to them. Same with adults, you never know what they encounter before they come to work. Bullying will only make them more upset and depressed, and like many other cases, it’s too late for help. There should be workplace bullying laws as well. Bullying could make a person quit their job and that is very...