This essay will explore the nature of the therapeutic process; using my fifty minute long real play session with one of my colleagues. Also, I will explore my experience of the therapeutic relationship and how it influences therapeutic change and increase the affectivity of the therapy.
In addition to this, I will be attaining feedback from my client after discussing each stage of the therapeutic process in detail to help me understand what worked well for the client and gain more insight into what I need to improve in order for my future sessions to be more successful. Before the beginning of the session, I made sure I place the chairs in an appropriate position to promote equality and decrease the power dynamic between myself and the client.
According to Vossler (2010) a mindfully arranged room creates an appropriate emotional atmosphere. For instance a light neutral room with upright chairs suggests equal, rational conversation, while proximity between the seats indicates openness as well as discreetly informing boundaries between counsellor and client.
Additionally, a client is unlikely to be comfortable and at ease about disclosing intimate personal information unless they are sure that their privacy is protected and there is no chance of anyone overhearing. Therefore, I have set up a neural room with minimal furniture in an attempt to make it a helpful environment and help my client feel safe to share intimate details about their vulnerabilities; express themselves freely and be themselves without fearing judgment. In an ideal world, this space would be different from their everyday encounters and experiences thus, will allow clients to talk without any suspicion of exploitation and manipulation.
I started the session by greeting the client and introduced myself; the client seemed very conscious of the surroundings as she looked around the room. I made sure I used a welcoming tone as the way a counsellor greets their client will influence the clients feeling towards the counsellor, and their confidence in the counsellor. It is equally important to be friendly so that the client feels at ease and valued as a human being. However counsellors need to refrain from putting on an act and remain congruent and true to themselves from the beginning, while trying to meet them in a person to person encounter to avoid intimidation Geldard and Geldard (2005).
i asked her brief questions about her name and how she was to get acquainted with her and build rapport. Asking questions helps facilitate a dialogue and encourages the client to talk and tell their story Miller (2006). The client seemed tense and uneasy and spoke with a very high tone of voice when she greeted me and introduced herself. When asked about the main reason for turning to therapy, she started fidgeting and looked unsettled; this could be because of the unfamiliar environment or she was not sure if she trusted me enough to tell me her story. Either way, I remained...