The Significance of Family and Kinship
One of the most important and essential things that everyone must have in order to live a great and joyful life is family. One must follow values to be successful in life, and one must also support their family to keep that success advancing toward the future. In David W. McCurdy’s article, “Family and Kinship in Village India,” it discusses the significance of how a successful family is formed by tradition, preparation, and patience. The article describes how kinship has the power to arrange marriages successfully, make families unite and assist each other, and teach and help one another agriculturally or economically.
According to McCurdy, the main ways that kinship organizes “Bhil” society in Ratakote, India are the terms used to refer to them, the responsibilities that they have toward one another, and the importance of marrying them off properly. Marriage plays a big role in life for the Bhil’s of Ratakote. The Bhil’s follow their tradition of arranging marriages. They feel that by arranging marriages, both of the families of the bride and groom will benefit in many ways. To them, marriage constructs alliances between the families, lineage, and clans. It also gives social strength and security to the families, and their personal reputations depend on the quality and number of their allied kin.
The Bhil parents of the bride and groom in question, must first find out if the other family’s worthy of becoming a part of the same family after the marriage. The attributes that the parents look for are the reputation of the other family, the treatment and hospitality of the other’s in-laws, the obligations met to others, the bride or groom’s reputation, the physical, emotional, and intellectual characteristics of the bride or groom, and the amount and wealth of the family’s land and animals. If each family is satisfied with each other’s ways of life, then the bride and groom and bound to be. All the precautions taken by the families...