Not all leaders are famous like Martin Luther King, most leaders are ordinary people; you can walk down the street and run into someone and not know that they are a very powerful leader. I personally know of a good leader that is an ordinary person; my father. Although some people believe that leaders are born and not made, I believe that anyone can become a leader if they have enough courage and are thick skinned. There are many words that people come up with when they are asked to describe what makes a good leader. The most popular characteristics used to describe a good leader would be a good listener, responsible, and decisive. When you think of what makes a good leader you should also ask what kind of education they have and what would make them be a good leader.
The first important key role in being a leader is being a good listener. Some might ask: Why should they be good listeners if they are leaders? Shouldn’t they be the ones speaking and not listening? Yes they are the leader, but they need to listen and follow directions so they do not miss any important information. They need to do this so they can know how to instruct their team on what to do.
Leaders are always looking and encouraging the team to give them feedback so they can work to better themselves. The reason why leaders like to listen to feedback is so they can know what they that would be considered their strong point so they can work from that and make it even better. On the same note they need to listen to the critiques on what they did that was a weak point about them so they know what things they should avoid. If someone is calling themselves a leader but they do not like to take the positive criticism, then they probably are not a real leader.
Studies show that when someone is a good listener, they tend to make a good leader and get promoted faster to higher positions than those who are not good listeners (Rai). Many believe listening skills are a necessity to being successful. It’s said that god gave us two ears so we can listen twice as much as we talk, and leaders should follow this saying so they do not miss any important information (Rai).
Communication would fall under the good listener category of being a leader. Communication is a key component to being a good listener because if you don’t communicate to whomever you are speaking with then some things might get lost in the process. The leader of a team will have to listen to their boss then relay the message to his or her team, and that’s where paraphrasing takes a good part in communication and listening skills. A good leader is always communicating with other leaders and trying to find out other good ideas they can use to improve some of their techniques.
To become a good leader, the person must be responsible, because no one wants an unreliable leader. The way a leader is responsible is by always being prepared and organized with all of the information needed on a moments notice for what is supposed...