What Characteristics of Women are Attractive to Men
Since the beginning of man and through the rise and fall of many different civilizations there have been differences of opinion on what makes someone beautiful, or more importantly what characteristics of women are attractive to men. The answer to this question is perhaps the billion-dollar question. I say this because the answer to this question is sought by women every day through billions and billions of dollars of plastic surgery, beauty products, and stylish clothing. Put simply, the main question that I am discussing is, are there some things that all women have in common that makes them attractive to men?
This question arises from the fact that although I, as a man, do have preferences in personality and appearance in looking for a mate. I can still find things about all women that are attractive to me, Whether it is an aspect of their personality or something physical, like nice eyes. It is this habit of most of the men I know to look for the good in girls that make me wonder what exactly makes women in general beautiful?
Before any of this can be seriously thought of though, we must first consider the concept of beauty in relation to women. The question here is of course, is our concept of beauty innate or is it defined by our own individual tastes shaped by life experiences? Thinking along these lines, we must go all the way back through history to ancient Greece and Plato, who wrote in The Symposium:
And the true order of going, or being led by another, to the things of love, is to begin from the beauties of earth and mount upwards for the sake of that other beauty, using these as steps only, and from one going on to two, and from two to all fair forms, and from fair forms to fair practices, and from fair practices to fair notions, until from fair notions he arrives at the notion of absolute beauty, and at last knows what the essence of beauty is (Solomon, 652).
So basically to Plato there was one great form of Beauty, or absolute Beauty. The beauty of a particular person is our starting point for discovering absolute Beauty. The ultimate goal in loving the beauty of another is for our soul to see the eternal Form of Beauty and to contemplate Beauty continuously. One can only assume that Plato believed that all women had something beautiful in common. It is this perfect Form of Beauty, which we as men all have a sense of, that men see in the things we find attractive about any women (Solomon, 654).
Plato’s view of an Absolute Beauty still holds merit today, but centuries later other philosophers would put less emphasis on beauty as an independent form. They thought of beauty being something that originated separately in the human mind. The philosopher David Hume wrote about this in Of the Standards of Taste:
Beauty is no quality in things themselves: It exists merely...