Friends are people that we choose to be with. They are not relatives who you may feel obligated to see for those family gatherings. Friends are people who you want to be with because they understand you, and accept you for who you are just as you accept them. As we human beings go though our journey of life, we will encounter many people. Most will be acquaintances; interactions that are brief and insignificant. Some relationships will be more meaningful so that they develop into friendships. A select few of those will continue on to develop into true friendships that will stand the test of time.
Do you ever wonder what makes up a true friend? Friends are people that you can feel free to speak about your most intimate thoughts and they will not judge you. Friends are people you can be yourself around. What characteristics comprise a good friend? In my opinion, I think trust is foundation and the most important quality of a friendship. If you don’t trust each other, how can you develop a bond? Trust is like a brick wall.You build it up brick by brick, but a lie can make it all fall apart. My parents have told me, “Trust is slow to get, but quick to lose.” In other words, trust must be built up by time. Honesty is a big part of trust. Not being honest can change everything. However, if you already have a good friend, they might forgive you if you lie. A friend is not just built on trust, but on many other traits. Perhaps loyalty or optimism? You could list all the positive qualities, but reality is that nobody is perfect.
Friendship is like a room in a house. Diversity in friends satisfy different aspects of a person. Each friend meets the different needs of the human being that you are. Using the comparison of the metaphor of a house. You need a bedroom and a kitchen. Both are very different but necessary.
Having friends is an important part of your life. You can meet them in many different ways. Perhaps at school or even at a camp. It doesn’t matter what unusual place you meet you friend. Unfortunately, school and teachers can not teach how to make friends. It can just ‘happen’, or it could take a longer period of time....