What comes to mind when male and female sex drives are mentioned? The stereotype as stated by Roy F. Baumeister (2000) would be females have a lower sex drive then males. This statement tends to be accepted by most people in society as the standard, so why would looking into this question be important? Having a “standard” can be dangerous, because not everyone fits that standard. Thus, understanding the differences can show society what is normal, and how to change the standard that is accepted. Roy F. Baumeister at Case Western University, Alicia Barr at South Plains College, and many others sought to understand why do females have a lower sex drive.
Understanding the importance of a sex drive is the first step in the process of exploring the differences. The sex drive refers to the strength of sexual motivation (Baumeister, Catanese, & Vohs, 2001). Humans want to fill their needs and when a sexual motivation is high enough that motivation will outcompete the importance of other motivations. Basically, when the two sex drives are equal the relationship can focus on other issues. Thus, allowing the relationship to move on and be more successful.
What must be looked at next is the difference of sex drives between males and females. There is a lot of evidence that Baumeister and his colleges have looked at to validate this trend. They found that across all ages females are significantly less sexual than men, and females are will to wait longer in terms of time before engaging in sexual activity (Baumeister, et al,. 2001, 246). Evidence of masturbation frequency, and homosexual relationships both correlate with the idea of men being more sexual. In homosexual relationships it was found that lesbians had less sex than gay men at all ages (247).
For masturbation 45% of men have reported masturbating at least once per week when 15% of females reported the same (251). Both studies looked at the male and female sex drive separately allowing the conclusion that males have a higher sex drive than women. So what factor(s) might contribute to this difference? Society and biology may hold the key answer, which researchers try to understand by looking at what is “normal”.
Another important concept is understanding what is normal. The “normal” leads to expectations that males and females have for one another. By not meeting these expectations thoughts of being different can be provoked. Improving education and public knowledge will decrease the suffering by such individuals (Baumeister, et al., 2001). Barr, Bryan, and Kenrick (2002) researched what is the expected sexual peak of men and women. The researchers did three different studies on what participants thought the age of sexual peak was. The first study consisted of 60 members from the Psychology Department at Arizona State, the second consisted of 73 undergraduates at Arizona...