Why EQ is More Important than IQ
For decades, a lot emphasis has been put on certain aspect of intelligence. This intelligence is called IQ ( Intelligence Quotient ). IQ includes aspects of Mathematics, spatial learning, Verbal, logical reasoning, and memory. This intelligence could predict to a significant degree of performances and some degree of personal and professional success. However, some people with fabulous IQ scores are doing poorly in their life. They somehow are wasting their potential by thinking, behaving and communication in a way that hinders their chances to succeed. There is something missing in the success equation. The missing part in the success equation is EQ or EIQ ( Emotional Intelligence Quotient ).
Aristotle, a Greek philosopher, had a recipe for handling relationship smoothly. He said,
" You must be able to angry with the right person, to the right degree, at the right time, for the right purpose and in the right way " - Aristotle, Greek philosopher -
While psychologist, Daniel Goleman, called such self-control as " Emotional Intelligence ". This concept was made popular by his groundbreaking book " Emotional Intelligence " in 199 .
EQ refers to a combination of skills such as empathy, self-control, self-awareness, sensitivity to feelings of others, persistence and self-motivation. People who excel in their life tend to be emotionally intelligent.
IQ ( Intelligence Quotient ) EQ ( Emotional Intelligence )
· Mathematics· Spatial Learning· Verbal· Logical Reasoning· Memory · Empathy· Self-control· Self-awareness· Sensitivity to feelings of others· Persistence· Self-Motivation
Aspects of IQ & EQ and Their Differences
WHY EQ IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN IQ ?
As all of us know, EQ is more important than IQ nowadays. A person with high EQ shows signs of not afraid to express his feeling and express them with reason, logic and reality, and not the slave to negative emotion such as fear, worry, guilt. We should be brave and do things that we want to do. Besides, we should act out or do something to desire and not of force or duty. We should always express our feelings clearly and directly with three word sentence, so that we can let feelings guide us through life. Independent, self-reliant and morally autonomous also shows one with high EQ. High EQ is definitely not motivated by power, wealth, status, fame or approval but feelings, comfortable talking about feelings, immobilized by fear or worry, and able to identify multiple concurrent feelings.
There are many evidences that show EQ is more important than IQ :
EQ proves that emotion influences a person's behavior though he is brilliant and high IQ.
Two students show different feelings towards their results. Both the students get B- grade in their exam. The optimistic students ( high EQ ) shows the satisfying feeling to the result and accepts it with reasons while the other acts aggressively and is...